Getting a girl's number

Getting a girl's number

Pick the right target. 

This is the most crucial step. You don't want to go after the overly present girls. But you should go after the shy ones. Shy girls are the easiest because they aren't used to getting attention. So if you give them attention, compliments and make it seem like you are interested you will have the best chance of getting her number. 

Your first phrase. 

This is making it or breaking it. If you just say 'hi' and an awkward silence follows you are not getting where you want to be. If you use one of those lame opening lines like 'you're a thief, you stole my heart', you aren't going to get her number either. The best way to have a decent conversation is by having something in common. If you are in the same class or you are colleagues ask about the assignment or projects she's working on. Just start the conversation. The flirting will come after that. 

Eyecontact and smiling. 

While talking to her, look her in the eyes and smile, A LOT. Don't laugh like you have just heard the best joke ever, but just smile. Show your beautiful teeth. If you are too shy to look her in the eyes then look at her eyebrows or her nose bridge. It will seem like you are looking her in the eyes.

Compliments. 

Paying compliment has to be subtle. As I wrote earlier in one of my posts aboutflirting; you should be subtle. So if you pay a compliment don’t overdo it. Something like ‘have you dyed your hair?’, she will probably reply with ‘no, I haven’t’, and you’ll chat back with ‘oh, because it looks amazing’. This is really basic. Do NEVER pay a compliment about her weight or figure in the sense of ‘losing weight’. This is like asking a girl’s size, don’t. A good way of complimenting her figure would be if she’s drinking diet coke ‘you don’t need the diet coke, you’ve got a beautiful slim body already’. 

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Getting her number. 

After you two have had a good – and light – conversation about all the happy and simple stuff. And you have flirted with her, paid her compliments and you think she likes you, you should get her number. I am talking about GETTING, not ASKING. Why? As I wrote earlier in one of my posts, asking is asking to get turned down. You’ve got to be alpha at this point. The best way to get her number is to say something like ‘I have had a great time talking to you, if you give me your number perhaps we could get a drink sometimes’. This line may sound a bit cocky, but trust me it works because you show dominance. And since you went after the shy girl she is most likely not to reject your demand of her phone number. 

Good luck!

Flirting by a conversation

Flirting by a conversation

Flirting is showing that you are available to a woman. More specific it is about arousing a woman’s interest. It is about making her imagine the two of you being together. Keep this in mind. When it comes to flirting with a woman many men make the most common mistake of all, which is being too direct. The best way to keep a woman intrigued is by being subtle and secretive. 

Flirting is something that comes from both sides. Take a look at the following conversation. A girl says she ‘loves men with abs’. The easiest way for a man is to pull up his shirt and show his abdominals. This would be giving in too fast, the fun would be spoiled because you have already matched yourself up to her standards. Something more subtle and fun would be replying with: ‘it is too fast in our relationship to say that you love me’. She will probably have to think about your phrase and will reply with something like this: ‘do you have a sixpack, show me?’. 

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By replying with one simple line you have gained her interest. The trick is to be secretive, funny and keeping the conversation going. She wants you to show your abs. Again, don’t give in immediately. The best reply would be: ‘I wouldn't normally show my abs, but for such a beautiful girl like you I would like to make an exception. But what do I get in return?’. She could ‘trade’ and show her belly (or something else :) )to you in return for you showing your abs. Or you could trade, showing your abs, for her phone number or something like that. Don’t overdo it. Be subtle.

The main point is that you’ve got leverage; you’ve got something SHE wants. You have switched roles. Instead of you pursuing her, she’s pursuing you. You have taken command and have become the dominant person.

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What really helped me is the book 'The Manual; What Women Want', written by W. Anton. The Manual is the ultimate and only guide to getting girls, and to understand women once and for all.You can learn to get ANY girl you want, the same way that all men who are naturally good with women have. The only difference is that you may learn it much FASTER. So if I may reccomend a book it should be The Manual.


Good luck!