Having conversations with women

Having conversations with women

I've found it personally very hard to be social among women. As you might know it takes practice. I will give you some basic tips in this post how to become more socially active with women. Best way is to just talk about random stuff, newsfacts etc. 'I've heard that facebook's stock was really over hyped'. This is how you learn to feel comfortable among women, and you will find out that they are not some aliens from another planet. Talking also gives good info about the girl, if she's intellectual or just an airhead. So talking is the key. Not texting or any internet-related activities. Why? Because of emotions. If you text 'I hate you'. It could mean that you really hate her, it could be sarcastic, it could be funny or it could be positive. There are many different interpretations possible. Via texting, you are not able to send emotions. This is why talking to girls is so important.

You might think, why should I talk to all girls, even the ugly ones? Well, lets be honest, if you'd be really ugly, you would like to have the social contacts aswel. So be friendly and be kind to all women. Women talk - behind your back - about you with eachother. If you are being a dick, it spreads faster than the forest fires in Australia. Besides, most ugly girls have hot friends which you are able to hookup with after you've met on birthdays and parties. This is a great way to build as I formulated 'a female network'. The ugly friend will introduce you to hot girl A. Hot girl A has multiple hot friends A, B and C. This is how the piramid works.

So you've managed to get yourself a female network... ALWAYS say hi. This is a way of showing - not only - respect, but it'll also look like you've got a lot of friends. Girls digg men that have a lot of social contacts. Also, it feels awesome when you walk down the hall at school; and everybody says hi to you. Many social contacts will give you great respect from other girls, some might even feel threatened and want you even more. So this is a win win situation. But again I cannot emphasize more; TALKING is the key.

Be socially active

Conversations are so important. As I wrote, talking about random stuff or shared interests is fine. DO NOT EVER talk about computer stuff. So don't yell across the room to your friends 'Yo Bros, I've been coding some C++ and I heard that you are doing some PHP, can we compile those two together into an exe?'. This is a dealbraker. Also don't talk about your WoW shit. She's not interested in that. It makes you look like a complete nolifer since there are no girls on WoW. When talking, talk decent, speak your native language as you should. Dun be talkin like dis brah. Showing intelligence and manners is fine, but don't over do it. Don't bragg about your grades and don't correct her in every scentence.

This should help you. Try talking to girls, ugly ones, beautiful ones, old and young women. Show your face, be nice. Good luck!

Flirting by a conversation

Flirting by a conversation

Flirting is showing that you are available to a woman. More specific it is about arousing a woman’s interest. It is about making her imagine the two of you being together. Keep this in mind. When it comes to flirting with a woman many men make the most common mistake of all, which is being too direct. The best way to keep a woman intrigued is by being subtle and secretive. 

Flirting is something that comes from both sides. Take a look at the following conversation. A girl says she ‘loves men with abs’. The easiest way for a man is to pull up his shirt and show his abdominals. This would be giving in too fast, the fun would be spoiled because you have already matched yourself up to her standards. Something more subtle and fun would be replying with: ‘it is too fast in our relationship to say that you love me’. She will probably have to think about your phrase and will reply with something like this: ‘do you have a sixpack, show me?’. 

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By replying with one simple line you have gained her interest. The trick is to be secretive, funny and keeping the conversation going. She wants you to show your abs. Again, don’t give in immediately. The best reply would be: ‘I wouldn't normally show my abs, but for such a beautiful girl like you I would like to make an exception. But what do I get in return?’. She could ‘trade’ and show her belly (or something else :) )to you in return for you showing your abs. Or you could trade, showing your abs, for her phone number or something like that. Don’t overdo it. Be subtle.

The main point is that you’ve got leverage; you’ve got something SHE wants. You have switched roles. Instead of you pursuing her, she’s pursuing you. You have taken command and have become the dominant person.

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What really helped me is the book 'The Manual; What Women Want', written by W. Anton. The Manual is the ultimate and only guide to getting girls, and to understand women once and for all.You can learn to get ANY girl you want, the same way that all men who are naturally good with women have. The only difference is that you may learn it much FASTER. So if I may reccomend a book it should be The Manual.


Good luck!